Last month I wrote a post on Lessons I have learned as a churchplanter in my first 6 months. It seemed to have struck a cord with some, so I plan to continue posting about the lessons that I am learning in the hope that it may help or encourage others of you who are on this same journey of churchplanting or church revitalization. I realize that 6 months doesn’t seem like a very long time, but I believe that the first year in the life of the new church is absolutely crucial to its sustainability and longevity.
I recognize that my model of church planting may not be the same as others of you who are currently planting, but I think that the lessons that I am going to share are universal and have value for anyone planting a new church or attempting to revitalize an existing congregation regardless of strategy.
Today I want to talk about the value of starting over.
Church planters have some obvious challenges that existing congregations do not have; on the other hand, we have some benefits that existing congregations do not have as well. One of the benefits in planting is that you can always dig up the seed or pull up the plant, discard it and start all over again.
When Sandra and I lived in South Florida, she tried her hand at planting a garden on several occasions. Of course, there are very few vegetables that grow well in the subtropical climate of South Florida, but she gave it the ole’ college try. She was actually successful at planting certain vegetables: tomatoes, green beans, jalapeno peppers (peppers of all variety in fact grow well down there), and cucumbers. Some vegetables just never would seem to grow however, and I recall several times where Sandra would pull up the old plant and re-plant it. Amazingly, if a seed is nurtured in proper soil, with the correct amount of sunlight and watered regularly, it will inevitably produce what’s on the seed package! The trick is to replant it; or to start over.
We church planters are a curious lot. We dive in to our assignment with great passion and vision. We begin putting the seeds in the ground with vigor and enthusiasm, but all-to-often we discover several months in that we planted in bad soil, or that our new church hasn’t been getting the proper amount of light or nutrients. We dejectedly confess that we are unworthy of our calling; we have failed; we just don’t have a green thumb.
I have been in a season of questioning my call recently. The seeds that I have planted have produced some wonderful fruit, but they have also produced some sorry looking stalks with nothing to show for my hard work other than some withering leaves. If I were a farmer attempting to survive and provide for my family by producing and distributing my harvest for profit I would be a dismal failure. Thankfully I am not a farmer. I am a churchplanter, and I can always start over.
This is not a popular option however. It sounds rather like I am admitting failure; and, in fact, that is precisely what I am doing. I have no qualms about confessing my shortcomings. I have made mistakes. We all do. The question is: what are we going to do about them?
I’m planning on pulling up some of my failed attempts and creative strategies and tossing them out. I am not too proud to do this.
There’s no fruit.
No sense beating a dead fig tree.
I am going to plant some new seeds, and I am going to work much harder at ensuring that these new seeds are planted in good soil, that they are watered regularly, and that they are given the proper amount of sunlight (translation: birthed and nurtured in prayer, sustained through wise counsel and in loving community, and faithfully entrusted to the Master Gardner [I Corinthians 3.7]).
And then I am going to wait.
Sometimes, the biggest problem we face in our planting is that we aren’t patient enough. We want the fruit right now. It doesn’t work that way. It takes some time to nurture these new plants, to prune them if necessary, to battle the weeds that will inevitably grow up alongside of them, and then finally to harvest them all in good time.
We have the luxury as new church start pastors and those working to revitalize congregations to experiment. We have the luxury to start over if necessary. We need to see this as a blessing and not as a sign of failure or lack of calling. Sometimes the stuff we plant just doesn’t grow, or it does grow but it doesn’t produce what it was intended to produce. It’s ok.
Just start over.
Monday, March 5, 2012
Monday, February 6, 2012
What I've Discovered About Church Planting in My First Six Months
I have been planting my new church, The Journey, for the past six months. It is something I have always wanted to do from the moment I began pursuing a call to full-time vocational ministry in 2003. I was elated when the Conference informed me last year that I would be appointed to start a new church in July. I began to immediately map out what my new church was going to look like and the strategic process that I would implement in order to ensure that The Journey would become successful.
That was in June. It is now February, and I have learned a lot. Here are a few lessons I’ve learned that may help potential new church start pastors or any pastor for that matter when heading in to a time of change or renewal.
1. It is NOT my church. When the Conference asked me to plant a church, I assumed that I would be planting the church that was in my head. God asks us to plant “His” church (Matt. 16.18), not our church. Six months in to this and I can truthfully say that very little of what I intended, dreamed or strategized in June has actually happened. With that in mind, however, what God has birthed has been far greater than anything I could have ever hoped or imagined.
2. Our ideas of success are not necessarily God’s ideas of success. The typical process of starting a new church in the US has really been more about “building” a church than it has been “planting” a church. The model that I inherited and was encouraged to follow involved gathering a group of people, creating a “relevant, cutting-edge” worship “experience” and inviting the community to come. “If you build it they will come.” This has not been my experience. The idea behind this model of church planting is that successful churches grow numerically (translation: more and more people come to our worship service) and financially (translation: those people who come to our worship services give generously to support the new church). The natural outflow of this model involves hiring professional staff, developing quality programs to compete with other successful churches in the community and building larger and more functional facilities. What I have discovered is that God is not nearly as interested in that model as I supposed. I am beginning to realize that success for a church involves authentic encounters with broken, hurting people in unconventional, non-threatening spaces within the community on a daily basis. This does not mean that we forgo our worship gatherings; it just means that we don’t put all of our eggs into that basket. On the contrary, I have come to see that success for our new church takes place every day when we connect with the community and offer Christ to them through love, compassion and grace.
3. This approach to reevaluating success obviously begs the question: how do you support yourself? This has been the biggest challenge for me so far. When we began to see that God had called us to this community to serve them and to go to them instead of focusing on getting them to come to us, we obviously faced the challenge of sustainability. What we decided to do was to open a small non-profit business. We leased space initially for small groups and offices. About a month in to the process we began to sense that God wanted us to do something different with the space. So we transformed the front portion into a coffeeshop. The Journey Java Connection is a fully operational coffeeshop in downtown Crestview on Main Street. Since its official grand opening in November 2011 The Journey Java Connection has tripled in both average daily guests and income. The coffeeshop has become a missional hub for this new church enabling us to both connect with the community in ways that we never would have by simply building a church, and providing necessary income to help sustain the church financially. In December we began to see the need to transform the back portion of the space to accommodate groups and provide meeting space for the community. We purchased dozens of toys and children’s items from a Day Care Center that was going out of business and created a play area in a corner of the back room. Soon some of the “mommies” in the area discovered that we had a space for children to play. We now have 5 “mommy groups” that use our space throughout the week. We have had to develop a weekly calendar and begin scheduling groups on a daily and weekly basis. We have also begun to see the value of the coffeeshop as a means of bringing the Church in Crestview together. Although our church is affiliated with the United Methodist Church, we see our role in this community as ecumenical. We have a college group that meets on Tuesday nights bringing together college aged students from all denominations and backgrounds. We have groups affiliated with the Baptist Church, the United Methodist Church, nondenominational churches and home churches that have been meeting in our space for conversation and Bible Study. We began offering live music every Friday night beginning in January. We have singers and musicians from every conceivable religious and secular background that come out on Friday nights for Open Mic Night, karaoke, and Christian Music Night. The fourth Friday of every month is for invited musicians and we have been intentional about trying to find local secular talent to play so that we can draw in those that are not affiliated with a local church. We do not proselytize or overemphasize our Christianity, but we also do not hide it or apologize for it. We believe that those who patronize the coffeeshop will encounter the love and grace of Christ in tangible ways and that God will be able to do what He needs to do in their lives in ways that might never happen otherwise.
These are just a few of the things I have been learning. I do believe that it is important for the Church to gather and celebrate weekly, thus we continue to work hard on providing a worship experience that will connect with those far from God or those that have been alienated by church for whatever reason. However, I am beginning to believe that the future of the Church is going to have to be more focused on planting movements organically than building churches strategically. I learned rather quickly that I needed to simply plant some seeds of faith and allow God to grow the church that He wants for this community. I do not think that all of the seeds have sprouted yet; in fact, I am certain that God has much more in store for us.We do not have all the answers, but I do believe that by allowing God to grow His Church organically, and by planting movements instead of building churches, we will be successful at making disciples of all people for the transformation of the world. There is great hope for the Church of Jesus in 2012. We simply have to be willing to think outside of the box, embrace creativity, take some risks, and trust that God loves His Church and promises that the gates of Hell will not prevail against it.
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
What direction is the UMC heading?
A good friend messaged me with some concerns about the left-leaning tendencies she is beginning to see rising up within our denomination (the United Methodist Church). She asked me some pointed questions about my feelings regarding the direction that the denomination is heading. Her primary concerns have to do with abortion and homosexuality.
Here is her post
Hi Pastor Sean,
I think... I enjoyed the article that you posted ( politics ).
I have learned many things since I came to this country, and I believe that I am a Conservative Christian.
I don't believe in Abortion or same sex marriage. Although I have some gay friends! They are all soooo nice, and I really like them too..., but Marriage is for a Man and Woman....because God said so...
I also heard that the United Methodist Church is becoming liberal. One of my Baptist friend in PA was complaining about it ( she didn't know that I was Methodist ). That night... I couldn't sleep!
Is the United Methodist Church becoming liberal.... accepting abortion? accepting same sex marriage?
I have more... to say, but... I will stop here~
I just don't believe that Jesus was liberal...That's all...
Thanks for reading.
PS. _______ was adopted when he was a baby. When I met _______, he told me that he was so thankful that his Birth Mom didn't abort him.... tears... I am thankful too!!! : )
Here is my response to her
______,
Thank you for your message.
The United Methodist Church is a both/and denomination rather than either/or. The founders of our denomination firmly believed in a Christianity both personal and social. Most of my UMC clergy colleagues are theologically conservative (I am) and socially progressive (I am). By that I mean that we believe in the foundational principles of our Christian faith (the Bible, the creeds etc.) but we also acknowledge the value of all human beings and the need to express love, grace, and mercy at all times while fighting for justice and peace everywhere.
I do believe that there is a more "liberal" wing within our denomination that is more theologically liberal and is pushing our denominational leaders to amend some of our laws, specifically with regard to abortion and homosexuality. These issues will come up at our General Conference in April and we will see if the liberal agenda has enough power this time around to make changes.
As of now, this is where the UMC stands on abortion and this is where the UMC stands on homosexuality. Notice that the denomination continues to hold a conservative/traditional view on both of these issues.
I do not think that our denomination will make changes to the Discipline regarding these two issues. However, if they do, I know that there will be many pastors who will need to decide whether they will stay with the denomination (this is what happened in the Episcopal Church recently after they decided to begin marrying and ordaining practicing homosexuals).
I personally feel that our job is to love everyone (I John 4.7-8) and to trust that God will reveal his will to them regarding their lifestyle choices etc. He can forgive any sin, and desires to do just that.
I think in the end, regardless of where we land on some of these controversial issues, we will see each other in heaven if we have professed faith in Christ and have sought to serve God by loving God and loving others.
Only then will we find out who was really right ... and by that point it's not going to matter anyhow
Friday, January 6, 2012
My Monastic Retreat
I have been wanting to take a monastic silent retreat for a long time, and finally had the opportunity last week.
I felt the need to get away and spend some time in prayer, Scripture reading and good old fashioned listening in order to get some clear direction for The Journey heading in to 2012.
I made the 5 hour trek to Cullman, AL. and St. Bernard's Abbey, a benedictine monastery nestled in between Birmingham and Huntsville. My experience at the monastery was rewarding spiritually, but disappointing personally. I think that (like many things in my life) I had a idealistic impression of what my retreat would be like. I had a picture of a monastery in my head that was probably more 1411 than 2011. I felt out of place and unwelcome. I was spoken to by only one monk who seemed uneasy about my presence and my intentions. I attempted to join in with the monks for evening Vespers on my first night but was unfamiliar with the liturgy and was not given any assistance in figuring it out. There was no Wednesday evening meal in the refectory so I was offered a bowl of what I can only assume was leftover bean soup from lunch. I opted not to interact with the monks any longer after that. My room was on the floor just above the cloister so I did have several encounters with monks over the next couple of days, but they were all limited to a head nod and/or a smile.
For all of that, I feel that my time of silence and solitude was extremely rewarding spiritually. I was able to read Scripture and a couple of books that I brought with me, pray and journal extensively. I felt closer to God than I have in quite a while.
Silence is so necessary BUT so difficult. I am an introvert by nature, and thought that being silent for a couple of days would be a piece of cake. I was mistaken. I am conditioned by noise. I think we all are. Even when we think we're being quiet, we really aren't. The monastery is deathly silent; eerily silent. It was kind of creepy at times. I found myself missing my phone, and my laptop and even the sound of television (which I rarely watch, but which is on in the house regularly enough for me to actually miss the sound of it). I will confess that I actually slipped out on Thursday afternoon for an hour or so and visited a local coffee house in the area. Man, I needed that!
But it was in those times of silent reflection that I actually felt that I communed with God in a deep and meaningful way. I have pages of notes that I brought home to share with my core team about the direction that I feel God is leading us as a new church in 2012. I have pages of notes about things that I believe God wants me to work on personally - things that I probably wouldn't have thought about if I hadn't taken the time to listen.
All in all, this retreat was significant and rewarding for me. I probably will not return to a monastery again. There are plenty of good retreat spots closer to home; places that would probably be more comfortable with me invading their space. I will go there next time. And there definitely will be a next time; many of them I hope.
Silence and solitude are essential spiritual disciplines as far as I am concerned, I am sorry that I have not taken more time to practice them.
But that's going to change.
See I am doing something NEW - Isaaih 43.19
Thursday, January 5, 2012
The Journey Continues in 2012
I have done a poor job of keeping up with the blog recently. The holidays and the busy schedule at the new church have taken up much of my time since Thanksgiving.
I intend to write soon about my adventures at St. Bernard Abbey over the Christmas break, and I also intend to write on my thoughts regarding this new sermon series I am working on for the New Year.
In the meantime, I want to share a video introducing the new series "Extreme Makeover: You Edition."
Enjoy
I intend to write soon about my adventures at St. Bernard Abbey over the Christmas break, and I also intend to write on my thoughts regarding this new sermon series I am working on for the New Year.
In the meantime, I want to share a video introducing the new series "Extreme Makeover: You Edition."
Enjoy
Friday, November 18, 2011
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